Murdoch wrote: But Music Manic has the same problem
Has he? That's not the way I interpreted what he wrote... although I often have trouble understanding what MM has to say!

There is no difference as far as the signal feeding the ear-pieces is concerned between listening to a mono track panned centrally, or a duplicated track panned hard left and right!
I actually fooled my self into thinking that perhaps this is how majority of mixes are made and I can only hear it now due to my super-awesome pro monitoring headphones.
Most commercial mixes pop/rock mixes are made with kick drum and bass absolutely solid in the centre of the stereo image. But there are several potential reasons why you're not perceiving it that way. It coule be faulty or mis-aligned ear cups, a dodgy drive unit in one earpiece, dirty connectors or sockets, dodgy headphone amps... You need to try to work through the possibilities calmly and logically to try to prove where the fault lies.
If the 'fault' is reliably repeatable when using different headphone outputs on different equipment when listening to the same music track(s), and the same fault isn't apparent with other headphones plugged into the same equipment when listening to the same sources, then clearly the headphones are faulty in some way. It does happen sometimes...
However, this certainly isn't a common fault that I've ever noticed with DT250s and I've listened to many pairs over the years.
What do I do now? Send them back?
Yes, if you are certain that the fault is consistent and reliably repeatable.
hugh